#gnc folks

[giantgayratthatmakesalltherules]

I’m trans but I instantly transform into a self righteous cis guy as soon as a white woman says something about men as if they’re a monolith

[bunnyboy-juice]

NO MORE ASSOCIATING THINGS WITH FEMMES ONLY BECAUSE THEY ARE PINK!HYPERFEM FEMMES ARE GREAT AND I LOVE YOU CAMPY FEMMES WHO EMBODY PINK BUT ALSO JESUS CHRIST CAN YOU GUYS NOT GO MORE THAN ONE DAY W/O TRYING TO SHOEHORN FEMMES INTO BEING ONLY PINK UWU BABIES. I AM FEMME AS IN GRASS AS IN DIRT AS IN TREE BARK AS IN WEEDS SPROUTING THROUGH THE SIDEWALK CEMENT. FEMME AS IN GENDER NONCONFORMITY AS IN FUCK YOU MY FEMININITY IS WHAT *I* SAY IT IS. FEMME AS IN DEPTH AND DARKNESS AND WARMTH AND TERROR. FEMME AS IN CAVES. FEMME AS IN LIGHTNING. FEMME AS IN AN AMALGAMATION OF TRAITS THAT I HAVE DECIDED ARE FEMININE REGARDLESS OF WHAT SOCIETY SAYS. FUCK IS IT THAT HARD TO UNDERSTAND?!???

[uncanny-tranny]

Begging, begging, begging people to stop associating aging and femininity in men/masculine people as Wrong and Predatory. Femininity has no age limit.

To any feminine man, masculine person, or really, anybody who needs to hear this: Your femininity deserves to be recognized and celebrated. Aging is a natural and unique part of life, and you don't have to sacrifice your femininity for fear of being "too old" to be accepted or seen as charming. You are already charming.

There is no limit to being who you are. No matter what you're told, you still deserve to completely claim yourself.

[all-weekend-secret]

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"The mad hatter bashes your face again / Look into his eyes and see where evil lives / Bullet through window / And down the rabbit hole / This is one fucked up fairy tale" Blue Alice - Ayria

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Went to a banger folk punk show with this fit. The mosh pit was fucking fire

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[mikesbasementbeets]

when will people stop being homophobic in the name of bi mike

[patzweigz]

bisexuals i think we need to start being more aggressive and claiming characters as bisexual. even if it doesn't "make sense" -- unless canon says otherwise they're bi now. they're bi now

[coelacanth-girlprince]

i may be one of the most trans cis people alive

- i own two binders which i wear regularly but hate wearing bras

- like two-thirds minimum of my loved ones are trans

- because of that last one, gender-affirming treatments are some of the medical treatments i know the most about

- i've considered microdosing t purely to have a deeper voice

- i don't like the sound of mr or mx, but when i get my phd i am absolutely changing my title to dr

- i feel a deep, trauma-induced sense of disconnect with my younger self, while simultaneously feeling like i wouldn't want to go back and change things if i had the choice

- also i have full-on amnesia for like ten years of my childhood

- i literally have a deadname (and have to fight estate agents about it)

literally the only reason i'm not trans is that the identity doesn't fit me internally. frankly i'll accept the egg jokes, but at this point it definitely would have cracked by now

[bli-o]

heres your reminder that you dont have to shave to be femme and actually feminine ppl w more body hair are so fucking pretty

[cadybear420]

COP 3 really bringing out the worst of the "female coded MCs" takes on Choices Reddit. Lord please yeet me into Mount Atropo.

[formallyfreya]

Any big butch ladies or non-binaries out there with good resources for picking out clothing that won't make me feel like a cow in a dress? Seems like everyone's got a style they like. I'm 35 and I still haven't been able to figure it out for myself.

I hate dresses. And skirts. Heels.

I like the idea of high-waisted pants and suspenders, but I'm not sure how that'll go with my big tits. Maybe if another curvy person could show me that it looks good, I'd try it. But then I don't know the best place to buy clothes like that for me bc I'm curvy.

No opposition to colorful clothes. But I'm not sure how good certain colors are with my pale skin.

Finding bras for my big chest that don't cost 60 bucks a pop is impossible. And it's just as hard to find an actual supportive bra for athletic activities. Just feels like it's not possible for me to look good bc the world hates fat people. Really discouraging.

Any advice or links to sites with clothes I could try would be great. I'd just like to be able to look at myself and actually like what I see for once.

[gophergal]

the solution to the "are you normal about X people who turn out to be Y" debate is stop fucking assuming things about people

You wanna know what pronouns to use for an individual? Ask them.

As a general rule, don't make jokes about the identity you perceive of someone. Know your audience

How is that hard? Why do we all think ourselves such experts on the lives of other people??????

[musclesandhammering]

I could get cancelled for this immediately, but does anyone else get really irritated when you see a certain subset of the queer community inserting themselves into other subsets’ issues?

Like when cis gay people think they can speak for trans folks just because “well we’re all lgbt.”

Or like gay men thinking they can make misogynistic comments about lesbians and use the word d*ke etc just because “well we’re lgbt too”.

Or (and this is a big one lately) queer women inserting themselves into conversations that are about issues specific to queer men, and acting like they have exactly as much credibility in the argument because “well we’re just as lgbt as you.”

It’s just like… yeah we’re all queer. But each individual group is their own mini community, and they all have their own things that are specific to them, and if you aren’t in that exact demographic then you don’t have the experience necessary to add your input on those topics. And if you go ahead and shove your way into the conversation anyway, then you’re like… only 5% better than a homophobe. If that.

[dootznbootz]

I'm moody and grumpy and sick so I'm going to be a freak about writing for a bit.

I fucking love writing PEOPLE. like as a whole. I love writing little imperfect messy living moments. People aren't perfect. Never will be. Never SHOULD be. And I fucking LOVE writing that. Even the "unnecessary details" feel necessary to me because they're HUMAN.

Spilling food on yourself. Getting food stuck in your teeth and maybe making funny faces while you're trying to get it out. Mentioning a silly moment from their youth in teasing. A disagreement. Putting on clothes and getting your arm stuck in your sleeve at first. "Ugly laughter". Losing your train of thought and saying nonsense while snapping fingers to try and get your thoughts back. Hugging someone taller than you and maybe having to change how you stand to fit together. Accidentally stepping on someone's foot. Bedhead, fixing someone's clothes, double chins, clumsy moments, Shifting, fidgeting, having someone mimic another's voice to make someone laugh, LIVING THINGS lksjdf ldskjf THINGS THAT MAKE US HUMAN!!!

And like?? A small thing, as I said I love just writing PEOPLE. But I see posts sometimes about how people "have a hard time writing women" and I'm just sitting here like??? "She's a person?? You've met another person before, right? Write the same way." and just get boggled and even, I don't know, disappointed? Even if she's not part of the main "cast" have her be, idk human?? Not just cardboard you know?? Don't "girlboss" her but also just?? simply have her have life!

Or then I've seen people literally admit "Well with canon there's not much to work with the women" WELL THEN MAKE STUFF UP!!! Use your big brain and have headcanons for her! See the potential she already has and fly with it!!! :D

How many times has she spilled food on her clothes and groaned because it's her favorite? How many times has she had snarled hair? She's probably had something in her eye at some point. She's probably tripped and skinned her knee once or twice. Does she swear? How would she react in this situation?

And sometimes I'll see people use history as an excuse or whatever but like??? Even IF systematically women weren't treated well, that wasn't the rule for ALL. For example, in the USA, Women usually couldn't go out in public in pants during certain periods. Yet I have photos of family from the 1930s where there are women in pants. Little girls and their mothers literally using a two-person saw and on the farm in pants. Just because the system is sexist doesn't mean that men in women's lives always enforce it. Just like nowadays. Reproductive rights. That's systematic. Daily life? I feel plenty safe with a lot of regular ass dudes. SAME BACK THEN MOST LIKELY!!!

Idk y'all. I'm just... disappointed by how many times I come across this type of stuff :/

[theinfinitedivides]

🇱🇨🇱🇨 thanks for the congratulations. back atcha for the triple jump!! also, nice to see another nb from the lesser antilles :]

no fr fr Alfred showed up in that sh*t like she meant that sh*t bc she did and so did LaFond. that gold is well deserved for both women and we have to stan. no other option but to amen

[vulpixelates]

be normal about gnc/butch/masc women using she/her challenge

[dont-look-me-in-the-eye]

"why can't you just be a gnc cis person?"

i was a gnc cis person, and you hated that too.